Mistress of the Night: A FemDom Experience

What happens during BDSM FemDom Night at a sex club?

Well…lots of Goddess worship and scenes of Mistresses dominating men in various ways. This was our first time playing at a BDSM themed sex club and we had an audience.

The evening started with drinks and socializing. We met swingers, kinky individuals, cross dressers, transexuals, single women, single men, and couples, all there to enjoy the empowerment of the FemDom theme. After the head Goddess gave the talk on consent, rules of engagement and required behaviors, the doors to the play area were opened.

Our first stop was at the lockers to shed our outer layer of clothing. Red wore a sleeveless thong unitard, mini-skirt, leather chest harness, leather wrist straps and high heels. Other than taking off her jacket, she would remain mostly clothed for the evening.

I wore waxed jeans and a black shirt with the pronouns “HE, HIM, HOLE”.

I love the shock value of the shirt and how it serves as a conversation starter. I removed the jeans and shirt to reveal my leather chest harness, leather strap briefs (concealing the chastity cage that Red locked on me), and engineer boots.

We had planned a scene in the main BDSM room, but first we took our time to visit the various rooms with sex scenes. There was one group playroom with three beds, a master room with large bed and seating area, two single-bed rooms, one striper pole room with sofa, a bondage bedroom complete with a cuckold cage under the bed, and the main BDSM room with bondage table, spanking chair, stirrup chair, multi-purpose sex chair, and a St. Andrew’s cross. All the bedrooms have windows and open doors for members to watch the scenes as they unfold. The BDSM room is fully open, allowing 360° viewing.

We planned to use the spanking chair for our scene, but first observed a Mistress and a male sub negotiating and acting out a spanking session in the chair. As the scene progressed, I was impressed as she used various implements, straps, floggers, to give him a firm beating…I mean spanking. This sub handled more than I’ve ever seen in a spanking. Red and I were flinching more than him.

As their scene concluded, Red and I prepared for our scene. I dutifully laid out our toys as people settled in to observe.

A magic wand, lube, latex gloves, magnum condoms, her strap-on harness, a large dildo, and a varsity level butt plug with 9.5” circumference.

Red instructed me to remove my leather strap briefs. Now, I was fully on display, only wearing a leather chest harness, steel chastity cage and engineer boots. Red secured her strap-on harness, then had me kneel in front of her to attach the dildo and to roll a condom onto it and turned requesting that I kiss her ass. I love kissing her ass.

The sight of Red with sexy attire, high heels, and a large dildo hanging between her legs was hot as hell.

She had me wait, ass up and face down on the spanking chair while she strutted through the club, turning heads and attracting a line of people behind her to watch the scene.

With my ass and caged cock fully on display to the room, she began the scene by spanking me with her hand. She was firm and made me flinch with each “WHAP!”. In between she would tenderly rub my ass to sooth the sting, before giving me more lashes. She had my attention, whispering in my ear a mixture of humiliation and honey.

She exclaimed her satisfaction that both of my ass cheeks were sufficiently red with her handprints.

Then she put me at ease, caressing my balls and ass with her hands and mouth, lulling me into calm.

I was face down, so could not see what was coming next. Though I had a good idea when I heard the snap of the latex glove as she pulled it on. With a generous amount of lube, she rubbed the crack of my ass, rimmed my asshole, then fingered and fisted me.

“Are you ready for mommy to fuck your bitch hole?” she asked rhetorically.

“Yes ma’am,” I replied. She slid the thick head of the dildo up and down my ass and pressed just the head in, slid it out, then plunged it in deep. A moan escaped me.

While she opened my ass, thrusting deep, she had me hold the magic wand against my perinium, with low thudding vibration. I enjoyed the sensations and heard the murmur of people watching her fuck me.

When she finished fucking me, she was ready for me to get busy with my mouth and eat her pussy. But first, she had me kneel with my head on the floor. “That’s it, spread your cheeks and show everyone your bitch hole. Put the plug in that gaping cunt,” she instructed. I heard some “awes” from the crowed has I pressed the thick plug into my ass.

I collected our toys as she rolled the condom off the dildo and tossed the disposables into the trash can. She paraded me, naked, caged, and plugged, through the club while the strap-on dildo hung between her legs. She led me to one of the rooms with a bed.

There she removed the strap-on, told me to open my mouth, and pressed the dildo in, adding another level of humiliation.

Now there were several members asking if they could watch. She was happy to oblige as she reclined on the bed and had me kneel on the floor to service her pussy with my mouth. She’s my favorite meal and I took my time pleasuring her.

When she had enough, she had me recline on the bed while she retrieved a lock box from our bag. The lock box contains the key to my chastity cage. As the key holder, only she knows the combination code to open the lock box. With key in hand, she removed the pin lock that secures the base ring to the chastity cage, and pulled off the cage, freeing my penis for the first time in 20 days. (If I didn’t mention, she is locking me for the month of LOCKtober.)

She left the base ring secure around my cock and balls, now like a metal cock ring. She teased me with her hands and mouth stroking me hard. Now fully erect, she took off her high heels and proceeded to give me a foot job. One man watching was apparently highly aroused. “Now a foot job! Ughhh, that is sooo hot!” he exclaimed. Red laughed and continued to tease my cock.

“Oh, Baby…that’s so good,” I grunted as I built to orgasm. Then, just as I was about to explode, she released my penis.

I ejaculated, cum spewed from my cock, though with no stimulation or pressure on my penis, there was little to no orgasm. The ultimate tease and denial, a ruined orgasm.

Frustrated, I was still horny and wanting relief. She would not allow me to have any more stimulation. But rather waited for my erection to subside, and promptly locked my now flaccid penis back in the cage.

We were 3-hours into the party, and it was close to closing time. The lockers are in the hallway outside the posh bedroom. All evening, multiple Mistresses reclined on the bed as they beckoned various men into the room to do acts of service. As I stood at the locker, caged, plugged and naked, to gather our belongings, one mistress called out to me.

“Hey, you! Come in here,” she demanded. Obeying her, I entered the room. “Dance for us,” she commanded.

As I danced, swaying my hips back and forth, they applauded with approval as the weight of the cock cage bounced to my movements. “Let’s see you twerk,” another woman insisted. “I’ve never twerked before,” I said. By now, a couple more women entered the room to watch my performance. One of the women demonstrated. She had luscious black skin and an amazing ass. Earlier in the evening, we observed that she had a burly, tattooed gentleman sitting with his back against the wall as she mashed her perfect ass into his face. Now she was teaching me to twerk. She demonstrated tilting her hips to lift her ass and dropping her hips to lower her ass in a deliberate, methodic motion. I mimicked her and the ladies on the bed squealed with delight.

After that, Red and I dressed, said our goodbyes, and made our way into the night. Outside the club, no one would know that I had a butt plug in my ass and a chastity cage around my cock. Secrets in the suburbs…

Epilogue: This was our first experience of doing BDSM scenes in full view of others. Red made quite the impression as she had several men proposition her. One man told us that we were beautiful and asked Red if she would do the same to him. “Maybe another time. Tonight, I’m only fucking him,” she replied.

While I’ve been in Playgirl magazine, done nude modeling for an adult art class, and have posted plenty of naked photos, this was a peak of exhibitionism, humiliation, and kink…and I absolutely loved every minute of it. I love the queer of it, the shock of it, the humiliation of it, and I’ve never felt so seen. It was deeply gratifying. I’m lucky to have such a giving spouse. Red is my partner in crime. xo