Vanilla? Or Kink?

Red was wearing a sexy, shear, powder blue panty and bra set. Red in lingerie sets the mood and enhances play for both of us. Lingerie is the pretty wrapping on a spectacular present. We kissed, I massaged her back and legs, sucked on her toes, kissed her more, and took my time going down on her. I licked and bit at her pussy around her panties. After teasing her a while, I pulled the panties aside and licked her vulva and clit. She moaned.

She had a new dildo to try. I penetrated her with it while I ate her. It was time to fully unwrap this delicious present…I pulled off her panties, spread her legs wide and continued to penetrate her with the dildo and eat her at the same time. I enjoy seeing her pleasure herself, so she penetrated herself with the dildo while I ate her and sucked her clit. She came.

Now that she was soaking wet, she stroked my cock, rubbing it on her vulva and clit, feeling it grow more erect. We start fucking missionary, then I turned her on her side, in a legs spread scissor position, one leg up exposing her genitals. This position is great to free up my hands to do more. I straddle her side lying leg, so our genitals are aligned, my hips in a powerful position to thrust. One hand pressing on her chest while firmly grabbing a breast and the other hand around her throat, lightly choking her, and I fucked her hard with stamina. My rhythm and aggressiveness was putting her into a submissive space. She looked at me, closed her eyes, bit her lip, and turned red in the face as another orgasm escaped her. Then I flipped her over into doggy position and drained myself in her with a super intense climax.

As we lay there, basking in the after-glow, Red asked me if I considered this session vanilla. We have different definitions. My answer was “pretty vanilla” with a bit of kink. I think most people use dildos and sex toys these days, so that’s pretty “normal”. Me choking her and fucking her hard…maybe that is considered rough sex. Though not rough enough to need a safe word or choke her out. She thought it was more on the kink side.

How do you define vanilla and kink?

P.S. I got the idea for the lingerie from my friend Rosie. Red does not want me to post her pictures, so enjoy Rosie in the pic below and visit her at the links in My Favorites page.